Saturday, January 20, 2007

Too Sensitive?

  • You're Too Sensitive!

  • You're Reading Too Much Into It!

  • You're Too Emotional

  • You're Very Intuitive

  • How did you know?!

  • You're Overwhelmed Mentally and Emotionally

Have you ever heard any of these things? I've heard them or variations of them for a considerable time. Strangely, with different people, during a different era of my history, this was not the case at all. There was more love and respect, more authenticity, more openess and honesty, and generally, a greater sense of community that allowed this sensitivity to exist in harmony. Once the harmony disappears though, a sense of craziness overtook me - until.

A number of years ago, an encounter with another sensitive soul opened my eyes and awareness to the gift that this represents and assured me that I wasn't just losing my mind. Suddenly, I embarked upon a journey to grow and develop the skills, tools, and insights that integrated the sensitive nature of these talents that are now a foundation of my Spiritual Life Coaching.

This morning, as the lingo becomes more articulate in ways that can help more people understand what they may be dealing with, I felt the urgent need to bring this to the attention of the public. More than 20% of the population has this kind of giftedness, and quite often can feel like it's a curse.

The overwhelming stimuli of the workplace environment, the city environment, the hustle and bustle, the competition and egos, and hurting emotinos of others can be extraordinarily difficult to bear. Yet, it doesn't have to be so overwhelming. Balance can be restored and the stimuli can still speak into situations appropriately so that the wisdom and gift of who you are will help others in their lives.

Remember, walking the tight rope gets easier each time you get back on it.

Make a Difference, you know it's calling in your heart.

1 comment:

Tawnya Shields said...

I am one of those HSP (highly sensitive people) I do indeed find the modern world an assault to my senses. I feel very deeply on many levels. this I have known since I was a child. It does seem in all reality that we of the sensitve nature are looked down upon.However, I know that I have also touched people lives with my empathy. Maybe not many but to those few it meant a lot. I try not to avoid people but large crowds and excessive toxic environments wear me down very quikly.

I read that people with our gifts were once a gift to the tribe or group. We were the shaman, medicine women and men. We were the ones who would feel if a new home was safe for the rest of the group/clan. Modern day civilization (I use the term loosely) does not see us for what we are which is a sad loss indeed. I agree that if we can share our gifts in a positive manner. There is a wealth of wisdom in our sensitive hearts, souls and minds to impart upon those who seek to change their lives for the better.

Nice blog. I am glad that I chanced upon it.